Monday, September 26, 2011

The Sexy Witch's Handbook

     Okay, let's start with the basics. In this post I'll talk about the Spiritual and the Physical basics of my Sexy Witch's Handbook.Were going to talk about the basics in Wicca. Let's start with Deity. There are two main aspects of Deity, female and male. The Goddess and the God, the goddess represents the moon, and the God, the sun. The Goddess goes through three stages, the Maiden(which is for the time of the year from Spring into Summer), the Mother (Summer into Fall) and the Crone (Fall into Winter). The God goes through pretty much the same cycle. The Maiden phase, as I like to call it, is a fresh beginning, the Earth is starting fresh with the warm weather, the flowers are being to come out, and youth is in its prime. The Mother phase is when life starts to mature, and flourish. The world is pregnant with life and of the harvest, a time of celebration. The Goddess and God give birth to the bountiful harvest and rejoice in life. And the Crone phase is the wisdom of life, death, and rebirth. The God dies and the world grows cold, and Goddess also dies, only to be reborn again during the Spring to start again. The story of the Goddess and the God goes on like a wheel, ends in the Winter and starts again in the Spring. 
 Oh and please don't think that because the God (as shown in photo) is known as the "Horned God" that he represents the "Devil" because that is not so. He represents nature and the hunt. Besides, Wiccan's do not believe in Satan or Hell, that is wholly Christianity and has nothing to do with our religion.  (Sorry about that but I just like to put that out there so people don't get the wrong idea!) 
      Well for now I think that is enough for the Spiritual side for right now. (Everyone likes to get some fun info thrown in there, otherwise you might fall asleep cause sometimes the basics can get a little dry after awhile, and I want to keep ya'll interested!) 
      Now for the physical side of my Sexy Witch's Handbook. I 'm just going to jump in this head first and just give you all a list of my personal Sexy Witch's do and don't.
     1. Always dress to impress. 
    And when I say that I don't mean dress to impress everyone else, dress to impress yourself. You wear those tight skinny jeans 'cause you knoww they make your butt look AH-MAZE-ING. Don't ever feel the need to dress a certain way just because you think someone will like it, dress in something because YOU feel sexy in it, cause hell, if you cant love yourself, how do you expect someone else to? 
     2. Something sexy and not to be seen.
    ALWAYS have a few sexy pairs of undies and bra's to wear under your Sexy Witchy outfit. Knowing you're wearing something erotic underneath is always a little confidence booster. (Plus it's always great to wear sexy stuff when there might be a chance you'll be showing it off later ;])  Oh and please keep it semi-comfortable, picking wedgies all day is NOT attractive. LOL.

     3. Black is ALWAYS in style!
    I'm not saying goth is up if that's not your style. But a nice black top, or a sexy black mini skirt is ALWAYS acceptable in a Sexy Witch's wardrobe!

     4. Time and Effort
    Put a few extra minutes aside everyday to make yourself up. I'm not saying cake on the make up like war paint, but put on a little mascara and lip gloss, and put your hair in a sexy style. A little effort goes a long way!

And now for the Dont's.

     1. Never EVER put yourself down.
    No matter what anyone else says, you are perfect, just the way you are. Don't let those few extra pounds you gained vegging out on the beach get to you! Guys love a little extra ;) and if someone you like doesn't then they just are not the right person for you!
     2. Too much eyeliner.
    You might think all that black eyeliner (or blue in some cases) brings out your eyes, but in reality it makes your eyes look smaller when you have six inches of color loaded up around your eyes. Go with a light line  on your waterline and tight lining your lids, it opens up your eyes while still giving your beautiful eyes lots of attention.

     3. Don't fit the mold.
    I know you probably work your tush off at the gym to get that perfect body, and hey! that's okay! but don't ever think you have to fit some mold. You are not supposed to look like those models on the billboards (besides the only look perfect because of air brushing and photo shop.) Don't be afraid to be yourself, but it's always good to switch up the cookie for a carrot once in a while ;) LOL.

     Well I hope you learned somethin today and that you enjoyed my tips. I'd love to get some feed back so feel free to type something in that little comment box and I'll be back tomorrow for more!!!



1 comment:

Toriz said...

Excellent post! :)